yesterday i i achieved something i thought i would never be able to do. i kissed my friend B, i have wanted to do it for 6 years and when i sawhim yesterday i just did it. it wasnt a make out kind of kiss just a sweet peck on the lips.. the best part was when he kissed me back

down 26.6lbs in a little over a year

im down 26.6lbs. still a size 16 but atleast im getting smaller

well today was 200 days... its been a hell of a week. she got custody of one of the kids and has to wait till the 30th to see if she gets the other one. the child protective system is screwed up!

Awaiting the days when life isn't constant hell

I knew she would

I knew she would do it. That skank told my mom a lot of my secrets that I knew would break my moms heart and that whore did it! All because I am trying to protect her kids from their awful mother. And now she is trying to tell the court that I am a danger to her kids because I cut. That is bs! I hurt myself not other people.. Tho watch out world who knows lol jk. Even the social worker says she doesn't have much of a case and that I should put a restraining order against her. Let's hope it doesn't come to that. But even so I can't be alone with her children until further notice, not that I';m ever alone with them.. God can't wait for this to be over.

I have chosen

So I have chosen a side in a custody battle and it is not my ex-bestfriends side. Yes there will be repercussions, and mostlikely some threats but the kids deserve a good home even if that isn't with their mother.

its been 193 days

its been a while, im still fighting with myself about cutting and for now the good side is winning

So in the last month I have lost three people in my life. One was a coworker who died in his home from a disease doctors could not name, he had suffered from if for almost 10 years. Another was my aunt who in her old age died of repetitious strokes. And the third was a friend who died in Afghanistan fighting for his country. All good people who made peoples lives better anyway they could. Now they are with god.

i will always know they are there... even when you dont..
and if i forget, i have a box full of sharp objects to help me remember.

so this morning i woke up with Hate burning fire red on my leg. it didnt hurt it was just strange its not even a new scar.. thats all just thought i would say it

Civility

Civil? Civil! i will only be civil if you are.. its your fault we arent friends. and i am not sorry i didnt come crawling back for your friendship after you told me to leave you alone. you are the one who wanted me completely out of your life.. so i am.. its not my fauld your children love me more than their horrible mother..

seriously?

SO basically in the past few months i have had 4 different guys tell me that if i was willing to have sex with them they would leave the girls they are with and start dating me, or would consider dating me just because. Do they really think that will get me to date the? seriously. its ridiculous

I'm getting sick of the person I am... I need to change for the better if I am ever going to like myself. But to do that means to change a lot involving my eating habits, my health, and my actions. I'm tired of being the person who does something and the next day ends up hating myself for it.

160 days self injury free! Wow yay me!

My dream

Ok so last night I had a dream that kind spoke to me. Not sure what it said to me but yeah. My sister and I were sitting at institute in a spot to the far right where we never sit and as we sat the girl next to us said she missed us. A few minutes later Andrew came and sat practically on my hip he was so close. He told me that his parents said that they wanted me to come to ellensburg with them next summer for their family vacation. I said yes and the next thing I know he has his head on my shoulder and I'm playing with his hair as if we are dating now. Then in walks the guy I was pretty much in love with growing up and he sat across the isle smiling at me. After class we went back to my house for a party and I looked outside and saw a car pull up knowing it was this guy named Andy from highschool who I was tthe guy who I was always exchanging playful banter with. He got out of the car and his friend erica(who died in high school in a roll over crash) got out of the drivers seat when he saw me he wished me happy birthday and came into the house. Erica was saying she knew my dad because she worked at the local chocolate factory and dad came in like once a week just to watch them make the chocolates. It was strange. And we got to hang out for a bit until I woke up.

Today I had 2 people tell me that if I lost a little more weight I would look like a barbie. I didn't know whether to be offended or flattered.

10%

so lately i wave been working really hard to lost the last few pounds i have been trying to lose for a while and while i am nowhere near where i want to be i am getting closer. today i weighed in and i reached my 10% goal! thats a little over 24lbs lost in a little over a year. i know i can do better this year, i still have a long way to healthy. Hopefully one day i will reach the point where my body will be healthy and i will look in the mirror and not hate myself.

143 Days!

143 days since I last cut!! Wow !!! Tho I must say I have been thinking about the blade a lot more lately

crazy little thing called love

I think that while I knew I was friends with him I could live with loving him and it not going anywhere. But now that it seems like he hates me and doesnt want to be my friend it breaks my heart. Yeah there will always be a part of me that will hope that one day he will love me, but until then, whatever i felt for him before has been replaced with rage and pure hate.

Ok so...

Ok so yeah I have lost 22 pounds this year but I still honestly can't see it. Its just awkward when mom talks to people about me losing weight because they know I do weightwatchers but they want to know what I do to lose all the weight. And honestly, I don't know. Some days I binge and other days I starve. Its how I have been for the past year I consider what I have eaten the day before and also what else I'm going to eat during the week and decide what days I can eat a lot of a little. I don't count calories I decide on what it will do to my body. Weird but its what I do...

Here I sit in a crowded room. And all I want to do is curl into a ball and cry. Someone save me please

Happiness is not something I am capable of feeling today. I have tried but its just not happening. I'm crawling in my skin again and need to get out. But I won't cut. I won't.

Hey bloggers I was just sitting here waiting for the new year reading my list of resolutions for 09 and not a lot of them happend. A few did but not a lot. And I was thinking that instead of a resolution list I would creat a list of things I want for myself in 2010. So here's a few I came up with

1. Blog more
2. Date
3. Stop cutting
4. Kiss someone
5. Do more painting
6. Study the scriptures more
7. Pray more
8. Stop swearing
9. Just stop what you are doing!
10. Be a better person
11. Find someone who makes you happy

Hopefully this year I will be able to cross a few off.

"you don't wait for people to rescue you, but you would like it sometimes if they did without you having to tell them. none of us are open books. and thats totally ok"

A friend of mine said that to me tonight and it kinda stayed in my mind

I hope that one day I won't hate every bit of myself

Its been 119 days since I last cut! Wow

Scars and mothers

so mom was studying my arms today finally noticing after all these years the intensity of my scars and all she says is "wow you did good on these hun, isnt it amazing how different scars can look. do you have any more?" in her evil mom tone. i told her no. little did she know that my body is covered with scars and that i wasnt lying because not one scar is the same.

My old scars hurt today. Not my newest ones but the old ones its weird

A Few Secrets

*I know that as much as I want to die, I will never hurt my family by killing myself.

*I love turning music up so loud it changes the beat of my heart.

*I know I'm a tease and I'm okay with it.

*Although people say I am, I have never seen myself as truly "pretty" and probably never will.

*I use LOL way too much in texts and IMs.

*I like to wear make-up even if I am sitting around the house.

*In 8th grade I gave my best friend a hand-job in his apartment complex pool. Two years later he told he was gay.

*I know I'm a crappy friend so I don't keep many around.

*In middle school when people noticed me cutting I told them it was from a poorly made bracelet and they believed me.

*Sometimes I want to stop cutting but I have no idea how else to get rid of that feeling.

*Most days I have no reason to wake up. But I do so that no one will ask if I'm okay.

*I sensor my thoughts feelings and emotions way too much.

*I think of AH more than I think of CR.

*I love watching live fireworks and feeling the explosion inside my chest.

*Sinse highschool 6 of my friends have died. 3 of which were suicide.

*For years my parents actually believed I was clumsy not a cutter.

*Its been years since I have actually been happy.

*I don't believe anyone has ever truly loved me.

*I have been told I am a great kisser.

*I am scared of living my life alone.

*Though I'm straight I love my breasts and am somewhat obsessed with breasts in general.

is it you?

When you get online, whose name do u look for first? When a slow song comes on the radio, whose face comes to your mind first? When you hear your phone ringing who do you hope is calling? Whose name makes your heart skip a beat?

So christmas was great. My brother and his wife came with their baby along with my grandparents for opening presents then we went to my aunts house for dinner. It was a great day!

I did get in a fight with chris last night and ended up getting so mad I was crying. He just made me so mad I was screaming at him and he didn't even care. The worst part was that after an hour of him not talking to me I text him apologizing for being such a bitch. He never got back to me. I AM OVER CHRIS!

Incomplete by Alanis Morissette

One day, I'll find relief
I'll be arrived and I'll be a friend to my friends
Who know how to be friends

One day, I'll be at peace
I?ll be enlightened and I'll be married
With children and maybe adopt

One day, I will be healed
I will gather my wounds
Forge the end of tragic comedy

I have been running so sweaty my whole life
Urgent for a finish line
And I have been missing the rapture this whole time
Of being forever incomplete

One day, my mind will retreat
And I'll know God
And I'll be constantly one with her
Night, dusk and day

One day, I'll be secure
Like the women I see
On their thirtieth anniversaries

I have been running so sweaty my whole life
Urgent for a finish line
And I have been missing the rapture this whole time
Of being forever incomplete

Ever unfolding, ever expanding
Ever adventurous and torturous
But never done

One day, I will speak freely
I'll be less afraid
And measured outside of my poems and lyrics and art

One day, I will be faith filled
I'll be trusting and spacious
Authentic and grounded and whole

I have been running so sweaty my whole life
Urgent for a finish line
And I have been missing the rapture this whole time
Of being forever incomplete

Merry Christmas bloggers!

Did your heart break a little when I wouldn't kiss you? Is that why you are ignoring me?

If I died today would it break his heart? Would he even notice I wasn't in his world anymore?

Today was a great day. Only now that I'm alone I feel like crying and that I'm alone in the world. Like this feeling will never end.

So i saw him today and my heart skipped a bit. did his?

He's coming home today!

The time has come! I can't wait! He's flight comes in at 1055 today and I can't wait to see him sunday... I'd love to see him before then but who knows

my life as a mormon

i have been mormon my whole life. and i grew up with values and morals that i know have saved me from doing stupid things. yes i have done a lot of things that i regret but they have brought me to where i am today. even if that isn't the best i could be. growing up going to church every sunday having christ in my life gave me the best childhood i could have had. it wasn't until puberty that i started with my cycle in depression. i love being mormon, and i hope to one day marry a strong mormon man who can help strengthen my faith through out my life. yes there i have had times where i wish i wasn't raised the way i was so that i could do things and not feel guilty about it. But in the end, my faith is what has kept me alive. Yes the church looks down on people who self injure but they done shun or turn them away. I have always felt welcome and loved. things about the church i have come to learn from experience, people suck, go to church for christ... not his people

So tonight would totally be a night where I carve the crap out of my legs and I would do it deep too, not because it was a bad day but because I know my body wants it and could stand it today. Somedays it can handle different depths it all bepends on what it wants. Yes it sounds weird that my skin tells me when and what it wants it but that's how it happens.

the marks on her arms will dry.. but they will haunt for eternity

I wish Happiness came as easily as breathing because if breathing came as easily as happiness i would have died a long time ago

Things I don't want for Christmas..... Anything foam, anything to do with painting, anything "as seen on tv", a scarf, anything knit or crochet.

The other night at a church thing I was standing in a group of friends talking about how one lady was going to be going in for carple tunnle surgery again and she was joking about how people are gonna think she tried to kill herself and she was joking about how if she wanted to kill herself she would have gone down not across. The entire time I was quiet and noticed my one friend who knew about my cutting and could tell she was just about as uncomfortable as me but never said anything. Then today she apologized for the conversation. It wasn't too bad.

When ur around I'm not numb anymore

So last nights dream spoke to me. It wasn't totally clear. I admit it was almost a sex dream but it never got that far. I was on a school campus with friends and a guy who I'm not sure who it was, but I knew he was a close friend. But what happened was he grabbed my hand and pulled me into the bedroom, and layed me on the bed. He told me he wanted a baby but I told him I just wanted to lay down. So instead of having sex we lay there in each others arms.
I guess subconsciously I knew he wasn't the guy for me. I'm on a quest to find the guy who is. I'm going to try and find a guy who actually likes me for me and not because he wants something from me. I'm also wanting someone I can be comfortable being myself around. Someone I will want to lose weight for not have to lose weight for.

So I think that my heart is starting to change my mind. The more I think about Andrew the less I think about or even want Chris. I haven't prayed about bit yet but I will tonight. Because I know that as much as my heart wants/needs him I know that he is clueless to the whole thing. He has apparently changed not only physically but emotionally over the past 2 yrs. And I haven't. Yes emotionally I have grown so much but physically I haven't really changed and its killing me. I am 22. Yeah I know I still have life ahead of me but I don't want to live that life alone.

I don't hate you I'm just hurt that you haven't even tried

Ok so I fail. Sunday night chris text me and the next day I text him back I made it two weeks no contact

He's coming home!

So don't know how many of you know this but I'm mormon. And well my friend Andrew is coming home from his mission in 18 Days! He has been gone for 2 years and the longer he has been gone the more I miss him. We weren't super close when he was here but we talked a lot. And well now that time is ticking down my heart is racing with the fact that soon I can see him and not just write him a letter! I'm so excited!

Today I am totally crawling in my skin. I wasn't while I was at work but now that I'm with family and going to be with more family in a bit so I can just sense the stress coming. Today is a day where I don't need to break the skin I just need a little pain to drown out the itchy crawly feeling

The second he gets in the car my skin crawls and I want to scream and tear out of my body

Finish this

i am: far from who people think I am
i think: about guys that dont think about me...WAY too much
i know: who I dont want to be
i want: to find someone who completes me
i have: trust issues
i wish: being 'just friends' was easier
i hate: being cold
i miss: spending everyday with my best friend Laura
i fear: that i may never find someone who loves me as much as i love him
i feel: too many emotions at once
i hear: love at first sight can be real
i smell: fresh laundry
i crave: a hug from the perfect person
i search: the world for him
i wonder: why people have to be so mean
i regret: saying yes
i love: white roses with red tips
i ache: for someone to need me in their life
i care: too much for someone who doesn't even know i exist
i always: sensor my thoughts therefor leaving things unsaid
i am not: as naturally happy as i used to be
i believe: in miracles and love
i dance: when nobody can see me
i sing: when I am happy
i don’t always: clean my room
i fight: opening up to people
i write: my thoughts out in emails and in my journal so i dont have to burden my family
i win: at...
i lose: my mind waiting to figure out what i want to do with my life
i never: really trust myself around anyone
i confuse: friendship for love
i listen: the voices in my head far too much
i long: to feel like a disney princess at the end of the movie
i can usually be found: reading a book or drawing
i am scared: burning to death
i need: something in my life to change
i am happy about: seeing laura for the first time in about a year

I HATE people who tell me what I am feeling or what I am going through. Young and/or old people are always telling me that I'm happy, upset, angry, pms-ing, that my face is turning red. Why the hell do people do that? Its my fucking life! Stop judging me and my emotions.

Its been 87 days and I can't believe it. There have been plenty of urges but nothing has happened. Like today my skin has been screaming for the blade and yet nothing happens. I will stay string even in my dark days. I will stay strong

''What my heart wants is not necessarily what my heart can have''

it hurts

just seeing his pictures. yes he was only a friend to me but he is still the only guy to have my heart. seeing pictures on his facebook or on myspace just makes me hurt even more. so for now i deleted him as a friend. he refuses to talk to me he ignores any form of contact and it kills me... so i am going to start a change in me. everytime i think of him i will think of something i hate about him..and sooner or later it wont hurt as much... hopefully

well its been one week sense i have talked to Chris... its been hard. yeah he makes me feel like crap in so many different ways but without him as a friend i have a hole in me that has a pain that is echoing and eating away at me. Soon it will stop, wont it?

So I went to the Midnight showing of New Moon last night and it was awesome! I'm just soo ready for eclipse to be out!

So as of today I'm going to try and see how long I can go without talking to chris. I probly can't go too long but I'm gonna try. He isn't good for me. He doesn't want me as much as I want him to. Its never gonna happen. I can keep telling myself that until I believe it

Happiness

I think I'm scared of being happy because if I'm happy I can get hurt and I don't do well when I hurt. Life seems to want to stop and one of these times it will.

So today my heart has been hurting for my past present and future. I have been emotional and mean but I have been sensoring myself a lot less and actually speaking my mind a little more, not completely but more. It was a quiet friday the 13th for me worked in the morning and I'm gonna hang with some friends later on tonight. We r going to see the new movie 2012. It looks amazing plus I love John Cussack he is amazing.

Today I hate everyone. everything anyone does gets on my nerves and sends rage through my skin and I don't know who I want to hurt more, me or them. I can't help it.

Today is not a day I like myself. I look at my body and I ask myself what guy would want me? With over a thousand visible scars all over ugh and yet its an addiction for me and I know more is to come.Plus this week my bra metal underwire snapped early in the day while I was at work and couldn't do a thing about it, and my breast is all cut up and sensitive.

Trippin on a hole in a paper heart

"With as much creativity as you can muster, show your heart in: a picture, a poem, a song (or piece of music), a phrase (or quote), an item of clothing, a place, and (just for fun) a Disney princess. If you want to join in, DO!"


1.Show my Heart in a Picture




2. Show My Heart in a Poem

Broken hearts are never healed. They haunt us for a lifetime even if we find someone else. Our past teaches us lessons that make us more aware and more human. Why then do we feel so hurt knowing it can only get better?

3. Show My Heart in a Song

Three Days Grace - World So Cold


I never thought I'd feel this.
Guilty and unbroken down inside.
Living with myself, nothing but lies.

I always thought I'd make it,
but never knew I'd let it get so bad,
living with myself is all I have.

I feel numb,
I can't come to life,
I feel like I'm frozen in time!

Living in a world so cold,wasting away!
Living in a shell with no soul, since you've gone away!
Living in a world so cold, counting the days!
Since you've gone away,
you've gone away!

Do you ever feel me?
Do you ever look deep down inside,
staring at yourself, paralyzed?

I feel numb,
I can't come to life,
I feel like I'm frozen in time!

Living in a world so cold, wasting away!
Living in a shell with no soul, since you've gone away!
Living in a world so cold, counting the days!
Since you've gone away,
you've gone away,from me!

I'm to young, (I'm to young),
to lose my soul!
I'm to young, (I'm to young),
to feel this world!
So long, (so long),
I'm left behind.
I feel like I'm losing my mind.

Do you ever feel me,
do you ever look deep down inside,
staring at your life, paralyzed?

Living in a world so cold, wasting away!
Living in a shell with no soul, since you've gone away!
Living in a world so cold, counting the days!
Since you've gone away,
you've gone away, from me!

I'm to young, (I'm to young).
I'm to young, (I'm to young).


4. Show My Heart in a Quote

“Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.”
Bernice Johnson Reagon quotes

5. Show My Heart in an item of Clothing




6. Show My Heart in a Place




7. Show my Heart in a Disney Princess



"Thumbelina: I wish I had wings.
Prince Cornelius: Maybe someday you will."

It has been 51 days without cutting

I hate that when I found out my aunt died you were the one person I wanted to see or talk to and you ignored me. I hate that when I'm sad all I want to do is talk to you and you would rather be out with your friends. I hate that your the kind of guy who will make a plan and then never talk about it again and I'm stupid enough to think that you would actually follow through with it. I hate that no matter how mad I am at you that I never want to give you up when I never even had you to begin with because your my best friend and I'm just another clingy girl that you rarely hang out with

To chris

"You fill me with passion, hate, excitement, fear, joy.. All at once. When I'm around you sometimes its hard for me to breath I am so filled with different emotions. And don't take it the wrong way. It terrifies me because I don't know what that means.. I haven't ever felt that before and scares me a little"This is what I would say to him if I ever had the guts to do it

My aunt died this morning. She has been fighting cancer for the last few months and fading more and more each day this week. My parents actually left for their house last sunday and got home last night. Tomorow they are going back to spend some time with my uncle. I'm gonna miss her a lot she was an amazing woman

Douche

Ok so haha surprise surprise Chris never showed up Tuesday to go to the movies. In fact he hasn't returned any texts or IMs sense last Wednesday when he made the plan. And I know he is ignoring me because he has responded to my sisters texts. But seriously why even attempt an apology if you don't plan on following through with it?! Seriously! Ugh! What the hell!

The Apology

This morning when I woke up I got 7 texts from Chris 6 saying "my bad" and one saying "So I've decided I'm going to sleep all weekend... O.o" so I pretty much yelled at him about that night and asked what happened or how drunk he was. He replied that he wasn't drunk just that in the last 5 days he has gotten like 8 hours of sleep. And that for an apology he wanted to take me to go see a movie. He wants to take me to see Zombieland. I asked when and he suggested Tuesday at 630. And of course I said yes. Now I wait to see if he actually follows through with it.

Ugh what is wrong with me?

Ok so tonight... ugh tonight it was the prefect rain. The kind where 5 seconds in it and you get soaked. So chris and I were talking and I mentioned the rain. So he mentioned that it was a good time for a walk. So I said yes. 20 minutes after said time to meet he comes running down the street to meet me. And of course I am already soaked but he offers me his coat to keep dry pay no matter that my clothes are already wet. But yeah, we walk back past his house where he decides to go get a jacket but first he unlocks his car for me to wait in. Instead of just letting me inside.his house while he is there. Ugh. Anyway. I wait in the car for about 10 minutes and he comes out with no coat.. He hands me his zune and tells me to pick a song. We listen to music for about 15 minutes till he decides that he needs a coat so he goes back in his house and 5 minutes later he comes back with a fleece jacket. I ask where his real coat is and he claims the ghosts are hiding them. Right then I should have noticed something was off. But anyway. Out of nowhere he asks me what I expect out of the books we are both in. Right away I'm confused so I ask what he means. His reply is that "by this time girls are usually tackling him to the ground and things happen". Seriously that what he said. So I think a bit and decide to say that I am only interested in hanging out . He snaps back something along the lines of "figures" while I am surfing through his songs more he starts to say something and stops mid sentence. I look over and at first I think he is faking, but after a few minutes I shove him and nothing happens. HE BLACKED OUT! I haven't ever seen him black out before and according to his friends he only blacks out when he drinks A LOT! So I figure the first time he went in the house he went and drank a bunch on top of what he had been drinking before we started to hang out. After attempting to wake him up 3 more times, I take off his coat leave it on the passenger seat and get out of the car. I didn't even turn off his car. I just walked away. Once I got home I sent him a text telling him what happened about how I tried to wake him but nothing happened. I hope that when he wakes up his car is dead and he is late for work. I feel this way because this is not the first guy to pass out on me while hanging out. A few years ago after school I went and hung out with a guy and he passed out while we were watching a movie. I tried to wake him and when I couldn't I pushed him off me and walked to my moms work and waited till she got off work to take me home. I didn't hear from that guy till 1030 that night when his mother woke him up. Ugh why does this happen to me? UGH!

Its been 25 days since I last cut. And I'm doing ok. Haven't had the urge to even pick up a razor.

Today I went for a 3 mile walk with a friend and I feel great! Haven't walked that much in a long time.

Got a werid text today

So I turned my phone on today and it said I had a picture message so I went into my inbox and nothing was on top. So I scrolled down and at the bottom I had a new one with nothing but the date... it was strange because it said the text was from dec 31 1969. Crazy

So today was my birthday and to tel the truth it wasn't that bad. It could have been much worse. Breakfast went good, I only got a few weird things from my dad haha. And thanks for the birthday wishes you guys! You rock

So today is my 22nd birthday. I'm supposed to go out to breakfast with the family. I hate birthdays. They are filled with awkward opening of gifts you don't want and having to pretend you like being around people. I don't know I am just not looking forward to today

4 days without cuttingWeight: 218.4 pounds - ugh

102 days

Well sorry you guys. Today was a horrible day.I can't even discuss it. I ended up vomiting from the stress and in the end I cut. I went 102 days being cut free and that streak has ended. I cut my stomach 8 times tonight. The stress got to me and addiction came creeping out.

Its sad when you don't want to stay awake but you don't want to go to sleep because either life makes you miserable

To those who comment

Hey comments are always welcome even if they are somewhat negative. It just means someone cares enough to comment. Speak your mind and never feel sorry about it. I love hearing what your guys have to say

So whenever I meet someone else who cuts, I get kinda weird. Its like I search for scars and see how bad they are. And if they aren't as big or as bad as mine I feel better about myself for the moment. Its horrible, I know. Its just something I have notices. I love scars and seeing them on other people just adds something to the thrill of it

Its been 100 days sense I last cut myself. I'm honestly amazed I made it. It started out with a bet and I actually did it, but now that the 100 days are up, who knows what could happen. I have a vacation in 2 weeks and plan on wearing a swim suit. So hopefully I can make it so I don't have to worry about open wounds in the lake.But anyway, 100 day woo!

Losing the weight this week is deffinatly a good thing. I weight 220 lbs and have been working at it for a while. My problem is that I love food! Lol. I have had my body my whole life and I still don't understand my metabolism. It changes constantly.

Down 2.2 lbs this week. Officially at the lowest I have been in a while

I am so damn sick of my mother Because ever sense I dyed my hair she has been going off about how if I want to look like this someone else should have me as their daughter. Every time I'm around her she looks at me and talks about a different person who should be my mother It seems like She thinks she is joking, but it just hurts and getting on my nerves I have been crawling in my skin

painting

this is what i have done to my bedroom door sofar

i Dyed my hair black yesterday. and my mom totally hated me for the day. she is still a little upset but she is starting to like it. on top of cutting the ten inches off, the dying it just kinda set her off. at one point she actually told me that maybe i should call sherry my mom because all her kids have black hair. she didn't like it because i was black enough on the inside without having black hair. oh well... she is getting used to it and i love it.

I cut 10 inches off my hair today! Monday I'm dying my hair too! It is soo time for a big change!

Its been 82 days

I'm painting again.. Somehow my lonely boring live is too stressful and all I want to cut. So instead I paint

change is good

i needed a change in my life so i decided to paint. not just on canvas either, i needed a big project. so I have been painting my bedroom door this week. mainly around dusk so i can stand to be outside lol. it has been plain hot pink for a few years not and i am ready for a change.i kept the pink on one side so it would still match my room, but on the outside of the door is Silver and black with pink hand prints sprayed into it. the other side has painted flowers and spirals. i havent finished it yet, but when i do im gonna post a pic of it.

this week has been the hottest week of my live, and i dont mean sexually. the lowest it has been at my house was 85 degrees at night. i have been uncomfortable and sweaty. i even passed out one day after i puked from the heat. it was horrible. i have been sleeping with my windows open for what seems like forever and even with that and the fan going doesnt seem to help. i am used to it raining every day, thats what i love about living in the seattle area. i NEED rain!yes i enjoy the sun every once and a while but seriously. 75 degrees would be great!

Its been 65 days

I picked up my razor today and I was a little confused by my emotions. I grabbed it and felt the need to cut, drop it, the feeling of the blade running across my skin, and the feel of the blood being drawn from my wounds. I didn't know if I hated the feeling or liked it. Its all too confusing for me. I didn't cut, I put it back. And as much as my skin screams for the blade I am going to try and fight it as long as I can.

I Wish a night with the girls would mean a night where I am comfortable in my skin

Ranting

So today was hell. Eli had her pre op appointment this morning, and he mother was supposed to be there. An hour before the appointment she called and asked if we could bring her because she asked her sister and she apparently refused totake her. But me and my sister refuse to be around her. So of course she got pissed at us and started screaming and swareing at my mother and threatening to call the hospital and lock us out of the appointment and to take Eli back. We were listeing to what was being screamed through the phone and were like Hey bitch, you can't take her. If you even show up and atempt to take her we can call the cops." Because our contract with her is that if she even attempts to contact or remove eli from us, we call the cops. So when we got to the hospital we told them the situation and had security come with us just incase. I left after 20b minutes so mom could stay and be around amber. And when I came after the appointment, I was talking to my mom and apparently amber showed her fake happy and ignored everything that had happened earlier in the morning. but yeah. She is psycho, to think that she would do something like this a week before the trial to see if she has changed enough to get her kids back.

Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince

Went and saw HP6 last night, it was amazing! I felt so bad for draco! And made me love him even more! Can't wait for the next 2 movies!

It has been 58 days since I last cut. Yay me!

Emergency room visits

We have my x-best friends 2 yr old living with us for the last month. And in this last month we have gone to the emergency room 9 times. She has what is called rectal prolapse where her rectum comes oyut after a bowel movement. It doesn't happen every time thank god, but it has been happening a lot more. We have gone to the valley emergency room 3 times and childrens 6 times. Tonight is trip number ten and we r going all the way back to childrens. Childrens is an hour away, and doing that more than twice a week is killing our gas tank and our wallets.She is usually the happiest kid and is always giggling. But when her issues flaire she is lethargic and miserable, its heart breaking. The doctors just want us to wait it out to see if she will grow out of the problem but we have no idea when that will be so they are talking about surgery, but are pretty much refusing to do it. And that pisses us off. We are sick of having this miserable child.

My Brother

I love my brother. he is amazing.we found out this week that he and his wife are having a baby girl. the name the have chosen is Clementine Agnes. i love it! that name is fun! the rest of my family thinks it kinda weird and old lady-ish, but i think its perfect. SO anyway. he sent me a text today that really touched me. he said " Did you make it to the specialist yet? If its a $ issue, let me know and ill give you some cash. you're gonna be an aunty so take care of yourself" i just thought it was super cute and thoughtful. i talked to him for a bit afterward, and then one of his friends later and she was talking about how he was telling her how worried he was about me and my heart problems and not to mention my depression.
growing up my brother was hardly ever around. he is ten yrs older than me and was out of the house before i was a teenager. he was always the kind loving brother that would pick us up from school if we were sick, but wasn't really the kind of brother that would just come hang out. he still isn't, but he is getting better at it. once he got married our relationship got better. tho i must say i hang out with his wife more than i do him. they are perfect for each other. they bicker a lot kinda like our parents and grandparents but they totally love each other, and i totally love him. i couldnt ask for a better brother.

I find it strange that when a person walks out of your life, you spend years wondering what it would be like to have them with you again. But then once they come back into your life everything changes. You panic that they won't call then they say they will, and when they do call you panic because your worried they will make plans and if they do make plans, they will be too intense or too unexpected. He is in town for 2 weeks and wants to see me, I want to see him.. I do.. Its just he has been out of my life for so long I don't know what to expect. God! I hate relationships! And the lack there of! Ugh!