Mar 4, 2009

Mar. 3rd 09 convo between amber and chris

Amber: Dude this is amber I'm with sam why are you such an ass to her she just wants to hang out with her why does it always have to be a PENIS night why can't you for once grow a pair of balls and be a nice guy and just hang out with the girl you like and that likes you why is that so hard

Chris: I am not that kind of a guy.

Amber: OBVIOUSLY so then don't tell sam you will hang out and make plans just to leave her hanging and hoping for something that will never happen let her be happy and if you can't be a friend then tell her that and let her move on cause I know she likes you and what you are doing this game is bs

Chris: Firstly i never said i would do anything. Period.

Amber: You asked her what she was doing today to ANY girl that makes it seems as though you want to hang out. You clearly don't like samantha as a friend

Chris: No i wanted to know. Has nothing to do with what i could do

Amber: So why do you say that you will go on walks and go hang out at your house and then ! when she takes you up on the offer you suddenly would rather hang out with the boys?

Amber: No payson told her to go over one time sorry I left that out but you do say you will go on walks and then never follow through you are such a lame dude I mean you are either interested in being her friend or your not seriously don't you care if you she is happy let her be happy shes a great person but you can't see that because you never give her the time of day

Chris: I do she just makes up extra shit i never said

Amber: What do you mean? what does she "make up"

Chris: Wtf! I have no idea

Amber: Well you can't say she says things you never said that implies that she is putting words in your mouth but REGARDLESS do you want her as a friend in your life?

Chris: I want her as a friend but she always says i did commit but i never did

Amber: She just wants some time with you is it so hard for you to just give her time once a week or every other week she just wants you to treat her the same way as you treat your guy friends

Chris: Wow

Amber: Wow what?

Chris: Not getting a god damn thing im saying

Amber: I get it she says things that you dont think you said but do you ever really hang out with her

1 comment:

Camille said...

Woah.....
Whole bunch of drama all up in this area.
First, I suggest not to have you friend speak like that to a guy you like. Her accusatory tone will put him on the defense, which will make him associate you with wanting to get away from a situation and he won't want to hang out ever. It's ok for you to have a friend find out information, but she shouldn't have been so.... agressive with her questioning, such as blaming him or calling him names. Yeah, he's a dick. All guys are. But he probably doesn't deserve to get jumped like that.
Second, I know it's difficult, but if a guy just isn't into you, the best thing to do is just move on. Make yourself forget him. It takes a long time, and lots of hard work, and there will be times when you slip and just want him there so you can stare into his eyes forever, but it is possible. I hope everything works out alright.

Much love,
Camille